Devotion 
Honor your mother and father. . . and mother-in-law
David Jacobs 

My uncle was diagnosed with a very aggressive and deadly form of spinal cancer years ago. When he was first told about it, we were all hopeful that he could beat it. As time progressed, we soon realized that the disease was stronger than we feared. He attempted to protect his family from seeing him waste away in a way that I think anyone can understand: he tried to push them away, telling them he didn't want to see them anymore. Of course, we never left his side, and the last months of his life were some of the most valuable memories that I have of him, even in his weakened condition.

Ruth's mother-in-law, Naomi, has dealt with one tragedy after another. Her sons and husband have all died, leaving her a widow, with only two daughter-in-laws, Orpah and Ruth. The two girls come back to see how Naomi is doing, and Naomi, like my uncle, tries to push them away. Ruth will not listen to Naomi. She will not even let go. She knows that Naomi needs her now more than ever, and that they both need God more than before.

Prayer 

Abba Father, I shall listen to your commandments. Remind me to honor my mother and father, and if I marry, my spouse's mother and father as well. Help me, O Lord, to heal those who are grieving, knowing when to be close to them and to give them space. Be ever-present in my life and theirs, O Lord, my strength and my redeemer. Amen.